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The community around Tara gathers for Gerald's funeral. Ashley and Will anticipate trouble because of a custom of "speaking over the grave," a tradition that gives anyone present a chance to say anything they want about the departed individual. Usually such speakings are eulogistic, but occasionally people have taken advantage of the opportunity to vent their own anger or to say things that are misunderstood by the family of the deceased. In this case, they are quite sure that Mrs. Tarleton and Grandma Fontaine are both just waiting their chance to lash out against Suellen, especially as they have already been glaring at her, and most have refused to speak to her.
Ashley and Will make arrangements between them to prevent Suellen from being hurt. Ashley conducts the funeral service, blending Catholic and protestant prayers in such a way that the people aren't sure when he is finished. Careen, who has become devoutly Catholic recognizes that Ashley has not followed the script which she provided for him, but when he launches into and eloquent Epicopalian burial recitation, the Baptists and Methodists who are there all think that he is using a Catholic ceremony. Only Careen knows that a "devoutly Catholic Irishman is laid to rest by the Church of England's service."
As soon as Ashley asks if anyone would like to speak a word, Will jumps
forward, claiming that it is his right to speak because in only another
month or two he would have been able to refer to Gerald as 'Pa." The people
think he is speaking of marrying Careen, so he gets a quick surprised
reaction when he announces that he is going to marry Suellen, but he pretends
not to notice. He describes Gerald in the most practical terms, saying
that he was a fighter and a gentleman who could not be defeated by any
force from the outside. Rather it was his own heart that destroyed him
as he had no will left once Mrs. O'Hara was gone. Will explains that the
people have the same weakness that Gerald had, although in different ways.
Each of them can stand indomitably against outside forces but can be destroyed
from the inside out by clinging too desperately to a world and a time
that is gone forever.
Following his speech, Will says that no more words will be said over the grave because the family is too tired to hear it, and it won't do Gerald any good either. Then he quickly turns to Mrs. Tarleton and asks her to help get Scarlett and Grandma Fontaine out of the hot sun. Scarlett is embarrassed by having attention called to her pregnancy, but Grandma Fontaine sees through the ruse and knows that Will's action was to prevent them from speaking out against Suellen. She speaks admiringly of him, and also compliments Scarlett for her practical way of looking at life. Grandma does not exactly approve of Will and Suellen marrying, for Suellen is marrying well below her class, but at the same time, she knows that Suellen needs a husband and Tara needs someone who can take care of it.
She and Scarlett talk about some of the other people in the community, Grandma pointing out those who were not able to recover and make something of their lives after the war. She includes Ashley in her remarks, saying that he was bred for books and nothing else, and that although he is a fine man, he is as helpless as a turtle on his back. Grandma believes that if Ashley survives, it will be because Melanie pulls them through; Scarlett calls Melanie a ninny and is unable to see how the sickly, easily frightened Melanie will ever be able to accomplish anything.
Although she isn't capable of hearing the echo in Grandma Fontaine's words, Scarlett herself sees the difference between those who survived the war and those who didn't. At the funeral, she notes the dirty, unkempt appearance of Cathleen Hilton particularly. She realizes that she and Cathleen had been left on equal footing after the war, both of them with nothing more than empty hands and their individual intelligence. Scarlett calls it "gumption," but realizes that if she hadn't held onto Tara and stood up to Yankees and anyone else who opposed her, she would be no better off than Cathleen. The paper thin division between "quality folks" and poor whites has never been more apparent.
Grandma also validates Scarlett's approach to life. She tells her to bend with the wind when it's necessary, but that the survivors spring back up when the wind has gone past, play along with the lesser folks and take what they can get from them. But eventually, she says, they kick the folks whose necks they've climbed over. She is referring indirectly to Scarlett's dealings with the Yankees in Atlanta. She tells her to "go for it," to get every cent out of them she can, but when the Yankees can serve her no longer, to "kick them in the face... and do it properly, for trash hanging onto your coattails can ruin you."
Scarlett's mistake, and the difference between her and Grandma Fontaine, is that Scarlett uses not only her enemies to her own ends, but also takes advantage of those who would try to love her, manipulating people to get whatever she wants regardless of the cost.